Barack Obama Forty-Fourth President
(2009 to 2017)
Remarks On Memorial Day 2013
Arlington National Cemetery - Arlington, Virginia May 27, 2013
THE PRESIDENT: Thank you. (Applause.) Please be seated. Thank you
very much. Good morning, everybody. I want to thank Secretary Chuck
Hagel, not only for the introduction but, Chuck, for your lifetime
of service -- from sergeant in the Army to Secretary of Defense, but
always a man who carries with you the memory of friends and fallen
heroes from Vietnam. We're grateful to you.
I want to thank
General Dempsey, Major General Linnington, Kathryn Condon, who has
served Arlington with extraordinary dedication and grace and who
will be leaving us, but we are so grateful for the work that she's
done; for Chaplain Brainerd, Secretary Shinseki, all our guests. And
most of all, to members of our armed services and our veterans; to
the families and friends of the fallen who we honor today; to
Americans from all across the country who have come to pay your
respects: I have to say it is always a great honor to spend this
Memorial Day with you at this sacred place where we honor our fallen
heroes -- those who we remember fondly in our memories, and those
known only to God.
Beyond these quiet hills, across that
special bridge, is a city of monuments dedicated to visionary
leaders and singular moments in the life of our Republic. But it is
here, on this hallowed ground, where we choose to build a monument
to a constant thread in the American character -- the truth that our
nation endures because it has always been home to men and women who
are willing to give their all, and lay down their very lives, to
preserve and protect this land that we love.
That character
-- that selflessness -- beats in the hearts of the very first
patriots who died for a democracy they had never known and would
never see. It lived on in the men and women who fought to hold our
union together, and in those who fought to defend it abroad -- from
the beaches of Europe to the mountains and jungles of Asia. This
year, as we mark the 60th anniversary of the end of fighting in
Korea, we offer a special salute to all those who served and gave
their lives in the Korean War. And over the last decade, we've seen
the character of our country again -- in the nearly 7,000 Americans
who have made the ultimate sacrifice on battlefields and city
streets half a world away.
Last Memorial Day, I stood here
and spoke about how, for the first time in nine years, Americans
were no longer fighting and dying in Iraq. Today, a transition is
underway in Afghanistan, and our troops are coming home. Fewer
Americans are making the ultimate sacrifice in Afghanistan, and
that's progress for which we are profoundly grateful. And this time
next year, we will mark the final Memorial Day of our war in
Afghanistan.
And so, as I said last week, America stands at
a crossroads. But even as we turn the page on a decade of conflict,
even as we look forward, let us never forget, as we gather here
today, that our nation is still at war.
It should be
self-evident. And in generations past, it was. And during World War
II, millions of Americans contributed to the war effort -- soldiers
like my own grandfather; women like my grandmother, who worked the
assembly lines. During the Vietnam War, just about everybody knew
somebody -- a brother, a son, a friend -- who served in harm's way.
Today, it's different. Perhaps it's a tribute to our remarkable
all-volunteer force, made up of men and women who step forward to
serve and do so with extraordinary skill and valor. Perhaps it's a
testament to our advanced technologies, which allow smaller numbers
of troops to wield greater and greater power. But regardless of the
reason, this truth cannot be ignored that today most Americans are
not directly touched by war.
As a consequence, not all
Americans may always see or fully grasp the depth of sacrifice, the
profound costs that are made in our name -- right now, as we speak,
every day. Our troops and our military families understand this, and
they mention to me their concern about whether the country fully
appreciates what's happening. I think about a letter I received from
a Naval officer, a reservist who had just returned from a deployment
to Afghanistan. And he wrote me, “I'm concerned that our work in
Afghanistan is fading from memory.” And he went on to ask that we do
more to keep this conflict “alive and focused in the hearts and
minds of our own people.”
And he's right. As we gather here
today, at this very moment, more than 60,000 of our fellow Americans
still serve far from home in Afghanistan. They're still going out on
patrol, still living in spartan forward operating bases, still
risking their lives to carry out their mission. And when they give
their lives, they are still being laid to rest in cemeteries in the
quiet corners across our country, including here in Arlington.
Captain Sara Cullen had a smile that could light up a room and a
love of country that led her to West Point. And after graduation,
Sara became a Black Hawk pilot -- and married a former Black Hawk
pilot. She was just 27 years old when she and four other soldiers
were killed in a helicopter crash during a training mission near
Kandahar. This past April, Sara was laid to rest here, in Section
60. Today, Sara is remembered by her mother, Lynn, who says she is
“proud of her daughter's life, proud of her faith and proud of her
service to our country.” (Applause.)
Staff Sergeant Frankie
Phillips came from a military family and was as tough as they come.
A combat medic, Frankie was on patrol in Afghanistan three weeks ago
when his vehicle was hit by a roadside bomb. He was so humble that
his parents never knew how many lives he had saved until soldiers
started showing up at his funeral from thousands of miles away. And
last week, Frankie was laid to rest just a few rows over from Sara.
Staff Sergeant Eric Christian was a born leader. A member of
the Marine Corps Special Operations Command, Eric had served five
tours of duty, but kept going back because he felt responsible for
his teammates and was determined to finish the mission. On May 4th,
Eric gave his life after escorting a high-ranking U.S. official to
meet with Afghan leaders. Later, his family got a letter from a
Marine who had served two tours with Eric. In it, the Marine wrote,
“There were people who measured their success based on how many
enemies they killed or how many missions they led to conquer a foe.
Eric based his success on how many of his friends he brought home,
and he brought home many -- including me.” Eric was laid to rest
here at Arlington, just six days ago. (Applause.)
So today,
we remember their service. Today, just steps from where these brave
Americans lie in eternal peace, we declare, as a proud and grateful
nation, that their sacrifice will never be forgotten. And just as we
honor them, we hold their families close. Because for the parents
who lose a child; for the husbands and wives who lose a partner; for
the children who lose a parent, every loss is devastating. And for
those of us who bear the solemn responsibility of sending these men
and women into harm's way, we know the consequences all too well. I
feel it every time I meet a wounded warrior, every time I visit
Walter Reed, and every time I grieve with a Gold Star family.
And that's why, on this day, we remember our sacred obligation
to those who laid down their lives so we could live ours: to finish
the job these men and women started by keeping our promise to those
who wear America's uniform -- to give our troops the resources they
need; to keep faith with our veterans and their families, now and
always; to never stop searching for those who have gone missing or
who are held as prisoners of war.
But on a more basic level,
every American can do something even simpler. As we go about our
daily lives, we must remember that our countrymen are still serving,
still fighting, still putting their lives on the line for all of us.
Last fall, I received a letter from Candie Averette, of
Charlotte, North Carolina. Both of her sons are Marines. Her oldest
served two tours in Iraq. Her youngest was in Afghanistan at the
time. He was, in her words, “100 percent devoted to his deployment
and wouldn't have had it any other way.”
Reading Candie's
letter, it was clear she was extraordinarily proud of the life her
boys had chosen. But she also had a request on behalf of all the
mothers just like her. She said, “Please don't forget about my child
and every other Marine and soldier over there who proudly choose to
defend their country.”
A mother's plea -- please don't
forget. On this Memorial Day, and every day, let us be true and meet
that promise. Let it be our task, every single one of us, to honor
the strength and the resolve and the love these brave Americans felt
for each other and for our country. Let us never forget to always
remember and to be worthy of the sacrifice they make in our name.
May God bless the fallen and all those who serve. And may
God continue to bless the United States of America. (Applause.)