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June 14, 2012 - Growing up with a military dad, all sorts of
stereotypes come to mind: strict rules of behavior, doing lots of
physical activity, a rigid chore schedule and a family short on
emotion (think Captain Von Trapp at the beginning of The Sound of
Music). Though he is a 24-year Veteran of the US Air Force and US
Marine Corps, my dad couldn't be further from that stereotypical
image.
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Lt. Alison Derr (right), Lt. Col. Dale Derr, and Victoria Derr
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Yes, we had chores growing up (come on, who doesn't?) and perhaps
over the years some might say we were very well-disciplined. But I
can honestly say, my father is the kindest, warmest and the most
humble and patriotic man I have ever had the privilege of knowing
(think Captain Von Trapp at the end of The Sound of Music).
The military was our life and family culture. Moving around for
18 years, constantly changing schools and moving to a new state, I
can't say that it was always easy. But Dad was always the epitome of
strength and service, keeping our family grounded and reminding us
that we had an obligation to our country too – to be good, patriotic
kids who also represented the United States and the Air Force just
as he did. When it came time for me and my brother to choose our
paths after high school, it was a no-brainer that we both accepted
ROTC scholarships to the University of
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Pittsburgh (Hail to Pitt!). After four years I went off to the Navy
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When people hear that I
was a military brat, they often scoff and remark on how hard
that must have been. Yes, it was hard. But it's a part of my
childhood and adolescence that I'm extremely proud of
because I'm proud of the service my father gave all those
years. When people hear that even after 18 years of moving
around, I joined the Navy and am now getting ready to marry
a Navy man, a look of amazement comes over their faces. I
just respond and say, “Some people's families grow-up in a
succession of lawyers, doctors and teachers. We serve in the
military. It's what we do.”
Dad, for 24 years, you served our country
selflessly and honorably and continue to serve today through
your work with our Veterans. I am so incredibly proud of you
for your service to the United States, to our Veterans and
to our family. Throughout my life, you've been a perfect
role model as a parent, a leader and an American; I'm so
proud to be your daughter. Happy Father's Day!
By Alison Derr
From
Department of Veterans Affairs - Vantage Point
Copyright 2012
About Author: Lt Alison Derr served on active duty for almost
five years and continues to serve in the Navy Reserves today. She is
continually inspired and motivated by her father, Lt Col Dale G.
Derr, USAF, Ret. and his commitment to service, to Veterans and to
the United States.
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